8/17/2016

3 Women, 3 Cities, 3 Days - Fun in Finland!

This is a story of 3 women experiencing wild, fun 3 days together.
Women who had just met on social media couple of months earlier!





 ....How did it all get started? How did this fun ride begun? Well, I was born in...
Nah, just kidding. Let's not go That far... only few months back.

So, what happened? How did I end up hosting these amazing two women?


Well, I came across with this fun, versatile, interesting travel chat, namely #TRLT on Twitter, in April or May I think. The founder of said chat is Savannah Grace, this lovely, always smiling and happy looking Canadian young woman who nowadays lives in Amsterdam with her partner.

We started chatting and emailing with each other after I had attended to few of her #TRLT chats and quite soon noticed that we come along quite well.



At the end of this blog you find Savannah's bio 
Trust me, it's absolutely worth reading! This woman is a true adventurer, so far, she has visited 108 countries - and she is not even 30 yet!
#TRLT = The Road Less Traveled - indeed!
She has also written wonderful memoirs, which I briefly introduce too. Also, at the end of this blog, there are links to order one of her books to yourself if you wish - I can warmly recommend at least the first one, because I'm reading it! Amazing true story of an amazing trip!



So, back to our story:

TBEX, i.e. Travel Bloggers Expo was in Stockholm in July and Savannah attended that event - which I was actually supposed to do as well but wasn't able to after all. While she was planning her trip, I happened to post great photos of Finland to one of her travel chats. She was commenting on my photos something like:
"You have a sauna and you never even invited me for a sleepover!." - obviously she was joking. Little she knew, this crazy Finnish girl wasn't when I said: "Hey, you're welcome anytime!".
Things started to roll and only about 1-2 months later she decided take my offer and she and her mom came to Finland. And just like that, I had just made two new friends.


All of the following events took place in 3 cities; Helsinki, Espoo and Kirkkonummi, which are all in about 30-40 radius from Helsinki, the capital of Finland.

For your information: Most of photos presented here have been taken by Savannah Grace (as most of the times I was behind the wheel...). Thus rights for the photos are either hers or mine, no copying without permission is allowed.

It really, still, feels a bit unreal that I invited unknown people to my home and yet, was so excited about it! I get to show these women Finnish hospitality along with Finland's wonderful nature, since it will be their first trip to Finland. Now there is something that doesn't happen to me every day - well, actually, never before... There is a first for everything, right? Based on what I have planned, there might be many of those coming to us in the next couple of days... "first times" I mean.


Of course, I wanted to provide them with a visit to remember - and based on the feedback, so I did!



The first meeting

We decided that it's best if we meet in Helsinki, so that they can leave there car to my (free) city parking lot for a few days, and I'll drive them around and they can just relax and enjoy the ride.
So, on Monday morning, around 11 am I got the call - they are here!
I met them, finally! We had never seen each other before and yet, when we met we hugged each other as if we were old friends, and that really is how it felt.


We took their luggage, put them into my car and started our tour.

I had planned parts of the tour in advance, just in case if, for example, the weather gets bad - which is not that rare in Finland, even on summer time - we've even had snow during the summer sometimes - just a fair warning for you who plan a trip to Finland...

Before we took off, I gave them folders wherein they had small information package about the places were were going to see.




HELSINKI - Capital of Finland


Kaivopuisto

(http://helsinkithisweek.com/articles/kaivopuisto-park-seaside)


At first, we drove around the coast line, and on our way we saw the iconic, wonderful 
Kaivopuisto, which is a beautiful park by the ocean south from the center of Helsinki. Lots of boats and happy people strolling around... and yes, it's as idyllic as it sounds. Also, in Kaivopuisto area (or Kaivari as we locals call the place) has the most beautiful buildings wherein some lucky people get to live, with an amazing ocean view. I wanted to show them all this, just to show that our capital is more than just the busy city center. 



Uspeski Cathedral and COFFEE!


(http://www.sacred-destinations.com/finland/uspenski-orthodox-cathedral)

When I planned the "tour" I decided that I want to show them Uspeski Cathedral, as I knew that my guests wanted to see some architecture and I hadn't seen it from the inside either.

On our way to the cathedral I showed my guests "Kauppatori", marketplace by the ocean, wherein farmers and locals sell their products, very popular place, full of tourists during the summer. Opposite to Kauppatori is President's Castle (although, it's not an actual castle, it is actually relatively modest building). You can tell whether the President is there by checking out if there are guards standing by the gate, if they do, he is inside. He wasn't.

While we were driving there via harbors and getting to know each other and just chatting, all of a sudden Savannah says:
I really need my coffee!

What did she say? Coffee? It's almost noon...

Ok, why was I so surprised?
Yes, we do drink coffee in Finland - lots of it, actually (although, I don't). It's not that.

...it's just that they just came over to Finland from Sweden by cruise ship and one of the most enjoyable things while traveling across the ocean on those ships are their buffet breakfasts, wherein you certainly can have coffee among so many other things.

It turned out that they didn't have the breakfast on board, wish I had known this. We would have had picnic baskets with us! Ok, let's solve the problem: we drove to Katajanokka and I saw this very little kiosk/stall wherein they sell coffee, tea, ice cream and some sandwiches etc. I dropped them off there and went to park the car (which by the way is insanely difficult in Helsinki, especially during peak holiday season).



Savannah and her happy coffee &
Maggie, just happy
Once I got to the kiosk, wherein Savannah and Maggie were already sitting, I saw this girl who was basically glowing, she was so happy that, honestly, I don't know if I've ever seen anyone being so happy about something so small. She kept repeating: "This coffee is SO GOOD! The best coffee I've ever had!"
Now I get it. She REALLY needed her coffee!

Of course seeing my dear guest so happy made me happy, even when her happiness had nothing to do with anything I did - well, I did drive them there, but other than that...

Then she almost whispered: "Is this coffee something really special or is everything this expensive in Finland?" I totally forgot to warn them. I know Europeans aren't used to our price level. That small little cup of coffee was 4 eur.

So I had to tell them, yes, in Finland, everything is pretty expensive. Not the most expensive city in Europe, but on top 10 I'm sure, especially on tourist areas...
Thus, another fair warning for you who plan a trip to Finland, Helsinki is quite expensive. Smaller cities aren't quite that pricey but still, not even close to central Europe's relatively low price level.


Well, despite the price, she wanted to have another cup of that fabulous coffee, good for her! If you really like something, go for it! If it makes you happy, it's worth it!


Now that we got this out of the way, we walked up the hill to 
see the actual cathedral. And it was, indeed, absolutely beautiful! Unfortunately, its doors were closed, although it was supposed to be open. Well, typical, when you plan something, it never really goes quite as planned. But no worries there, we kept on going. Besides, best things happen when plans don't.
Senaatintori and Tuomiokirkko

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helsinki_Senate_Square
http://www.visithelsinki.fi/en/see-and-experience/sights-and-attractions/helsinki-cathedral


After taking some lovely photos we drove around the Helsinki city area.

Next stop was Senaatintori and Helsingin Tuomiokirkko. Didn't surprise me at all that I couldn't park anywhere. There are only few parking spots in city area (except for 
the ones under ground) that the only way for my guests to see these places was to jump off while I decided to drive around and then come back to pick them up a bit later.


Fair warning though, to those who come to Helsinki by car:

Traffic rules are insane even for a Finn around Tuomiokirkko and Senaatintori area, and every time you drive around it, you see police cars somewhere. In Finland, you get a ticket relatively easy, so I'd suggest that you park your car to the harbor (if you come here by boat), or near the railway station (there is a big underground parking space there, quite expensive though) and walk around. Everything is in walking distance anyway.

And again; be prepared for some showers. After all, you are in Scandinavia, not in hot tropic and here, weather can, or most likely, will surprise you at least once while you're here.



I drove around about 20 min, during which Savannah and Maggie got some great pics of Senaatintori and Tuomiokirkko, and also got to sit on Tuomiokirkko's steps, which pretty much every tourist does.

Lovely day, lovely people and lovely new friends. Couldn't ask for a better start for this unique visit. I was a bit nervous though, how would these two women, mother and a daughter who've seen over 100 countries feel about me, my country, my house, and would I be a good hostess for them or would they be totally bored here as after all, they've been in Africa, China etc.. and Finland isn't really THAT adventurous. I guess my fear was unnecessary. We all had a blast, oh, well, at least I did!



Next stop: Seurasaari 

(http://www.kansallismuseo.fi/en/seurasaari-openairmuseum)

After cruising around, showing places around Helsinki city area we decided to head to Seurasaari, which is an open-air museum, located on a beautiful, green island just a few kilometers from the heart of Helsinki. The island is a tranquil oasis in the midst of the city and at the museum the traditional Finnish way of life is displayed in the cottages, farmsteads and manors (of the past four centuries) that have been relocated from all around Finland.

There is a bridge from the mainland to the island and right after the bridge there were MANY Canadian geese, how convenient considering that my guests are Canadians (who just happen to live in Amsterdam). Lots of birds right there so if you are afraid of birds,  just walk straight through the bridge. It's not the same on the island, just the bridge area wherein people feed these birds.
 

I was quite thirsty once we got there so I bought a little box of juice - yes I asked if my guests wanted something but they didn't. 

I had fund when I saw Savannah getting so excited because of this tiny little, cute juice box, of which Savannah even wanted to take photo of, because it was "so cute".
Ok, maybe it is a bit cute - I just never looked at it that way....
For me it was just juice. But for people who travel a lot with open minds and hearts, even the smallest of things can bring great joy. And now that little juice box reminds me of them and their amazing attitudes forever. Love it!

We saw these cutest little cottages that we had to - of course - take photos of. They really were small, but people had actually lived in them! They had different kinds of purposes, the one on top of the pole was for the food, protection from wild animals on winter time.





Did I mention that Savannah and Maggie LOVE animals? They even have an howl as a pet! Yes, you read right. Based on photos that I've seen, it's actually really cute.
Anyway, I started to suspect that this girl is really an animal whisperer as then we saw this little squirrel. It looked right at Savannah as if they shared a secret or met before or something, it was quite fabulous. It really didn't look as if it was scared at all. Old friends, I guess...


The further we walked the more we saw more old huts/ cottages, and some of them were so small that we couldn't help wondering how an earth people were able to live in them back in the days (oldest were, I think, from 1700-1800 i.e. about 200-300 yrs old).

Here is a photo wherein Maggie and Savannah are in one of these cottages. The two women aren't giants, these cottages are really just small, and roofs low - which was a bit strange as after all, people are pretty much same size regardless of the century they live in.


Before my dear guests came to Finland, I had told them that I have separate guest bedrooms ready for them and explained that our house is pretty average Finnish house - didn't want them to expect too much, after all, it's no mansion, just a nice, normal house. Although, for someone who's never been in Finland, "normal Finnish" doesn't say much...             

I was playing with an idea (in my head) of telling my guests: Here is your bedroom (on the left) and here is the house (on the right) and see if they believe me and how stunned their looks had been.... Then I gave up the idea, maybe that would have been too bad? 
 

No, I think these women would have just laughed at it, they can take a joke, after all, we did joked around all the time while they were here! Love people with great, and similar sense of humor! That's probably why our time together was so full of joy. We had plain FUN.
After all, they didn't know me at all, for all they knew, I could have been some crazy Finn who is just about to hoax them. Lucky for them, I wasn't - on the contrary. 

But seriously, it was amazing and fascinating to think that people have, indeed, lived in these houses only few centuries ago. 


There were many places in Seurasaari that we just had to skip after being there for a few hours as we started to get hungry so it was time to get back to the car and start driving towards my home.

Maybe I should ask my guests what were their thoughts after seeing these houses on the island - were they afraid that I'll be accommodating them into some tiny little hut like these... poor women! Oh, perhaps that is, indeed, what they were afraid of, and that is why they seemed so happy when they actually saw our house - yay! It's a modern, proper house!  

While we were driving it started to rain, which luckily was just a shower... I guess my new friends brought the sunshine with them.


@ HOME!


Finally, at home! It's been an amazing day with wonderful women. Now the actual nerving part: Bringing them home. What if they hate it? Don't like it at all?

Oh, yes, I admit, I was a bit nervous because who knows what their expectations were... I hope they like everything, not for my sake, but for their own sake. After all it is their first visit in Finland and I want them to enjoy it and I personally feel like I failed as their hostess if their accommodation arrangements aren't good enough.

So, I gave my guests a tour around the house, showed them their rooms, restrooms, showers, back yard etc. Thank goodness they seemed happy with their little rooms!

 
Well, at least the house was a bit more modern than what they had just seen at Seurasaari!

Oh, maybe that's why they were so pleased with everything?! Smart move from my part to take them to the museum island first!

Our house must have looked very modern, comfy and nice after those shabby huts! What a smart woman I am! :)



Guests' rooms.
The other room has full sized window to back yard, and the other has a beautiful forest wall paper that makes you feel like you are actually in the woods, it looks so real. They also had their own toilet that they could use.












Savannah was relaxing outside on the sofa, in my summer pavilion, enjoying Finnish (mild) alcoholic refreshment called Lonkero aka long drink. It's a mixture of grapefruit soda and gin. Quite good if I may add! Excellent cooling drink on a warm day. 

Strangely enough, we all felt so relaxed and normal, as if we had known each other for a long time already - not just a few hours, really. 

It was time for me to start preparing our dinner.The dish is called Poronkäristys - free translation: reindeer stew and potatoes, often served with some jam, this time I served it with (hand picked!) lingonberries (some call them huckleberries) and also cranberry jam. For desert I made smoothies out of some Finnish berries and other secret ingredients, which I won't reveal here, it's my secret recipe, let's just say that it was Good.


This stew is very simple, very traditional Finnish dish. Just meat, butter, salt, pepper and some water and you let it simmer at least for an hour.

I'm originally from Lapland wherein people eat lots of reindeer, in many different forms. Reindeer is very common ingredient here. 
The meat is very healthy, rich in vitamins and low in fat. 
So, naturally, I know how to make an excellent Poronkäristys and I was, to be honest, pretty happy to be able to serve them that. 

After all, these women have had meals around the world; Mongolia, China, Peru.. and I managed to serve them something they never had before! Yay!

I also served them Finnish breads: Rieska and Saaristolaisleipä, which they both really loved - or they were just really hungry...

After the meal we all relaxed a little before our next little adventure...



EVENING ACTIVITIES


After relaxing after our meal I told my dear guests that it is time for a little adventure. 

I was almost a little ashamed to call it an adventure, after what they have seen during their travels around the world. But then I decided, I don't care. This is my home, my country and my plan, I will proudly show them what I had planned, whether they like it or not.

So, I told them to put on some proper clothes as we would be going to the woods. They looked a bit suspicious, I have to say, but being good sports they, of course, acted accordingly. Then I gave them hunting knives, I had one too.

If only you had seen their faces!
They seemed to be confused and also a bit scared... hey, we did have hunting knives!
They probably asked themselves at this point whether coming here was such a good idea after all...What does this crazy Finn have in mind? Woods, knives, string?

But, I didn't want to reveal immediately what it is that we were about to do, it would have ruined the surprise.
Now I lead the way, guided my guests to the woods behind our house. I can see Savannah and Maggie becoming more excited than scared.
They look curious! Good!

Although, they were walking directly behind my back... sure, I'll protect my dear guests from the monsters of woods! 
Crazy bunch - women with knives, in the woods...
While we walked through the bushes and flora, they asked me if there are any dangerous wild animals in Finland. So I told them: "Well, we do have bears etc. but not this close to houses. But we do have vipers and ticks, lots of them both actually."

Oh, and I didn't tell them that just some time before their arrival our neighbors found a huge viper right there where we walked... and by the way, it's illegal to kill them in Finland, so you can only imagine where that viper is now...

When we walked deeper into the woods, we really must have looked like a crazy bunch. 3 women with hunting knives - 2 of which look like they are ready to use them at any point as they had no idea what was going on...



Vihta vs. Vasta

I thought it's better to reveal them what it is that we are doing before they really start to question my mental status... So, I told them to relax, we are just hunting birch branches, preferably ones with lots of leafs. I showed them how to do it, and told them to get about 15-20 branches each and then we tied those two bunches (bundle) of branches together and that's it - they had just prepared their first "vihta" or "vasta". It depends on the area whether you call them "vihta" or "vasta" - which one is the right one? Well, that debate has been going on about tens of years and will go on probably as long as we have birches and we make vihtas...

So now they have bunch of branches tied up together and that is called vihta. Ok.

What do we do with it? You'll see...


I went to our sauna. I put in wood (small logs) into the fire pit, which is underneath the stoves, and about 30 minutes later sauna was ready for them, i.e. HOT!




Sauna


Another experience that they never had before - wooden heated sauna!  




I lid some candles for them and, as they felt a bit shy, I gave them separate towels for the sauna. For those who don't know: Finnish people go to sauna naked as that is the best way to get all the physical benefits of sauna.
However, we completely understand also that it's not for everyone. For Finns sauna is a substantial part of our culture. After all, there are about 5,5 million people here and about 1 million saunas! Sauna is a place to relax with friends, family, alone... place for total relaxation - both physical and mental.

For us, Finns, sauna is not a luxury thing, it's just another amenity in our houses. Few words for you who have not been to sauna: There are stones on top of "kiuas", certain type of stove we use to heat up the sauna and water is thrown on these very hot stones in order to get hot air and steam to spread around the sauna. This action and reaction is called "löyly".

You have to experience it to completely understand the 
sauna mentality!

So, to the sauna we went.
Someone might have said: Cool!
But that's one thing it is not - it's really hot!
Dope might be the word younger generation would use.


Now what?
What do we do with "vihta"?
So this leafy, fragrant bough of birch is for beating/whipping ourselves. Yes, you read right! Really! If only you had seen my guests' faces when I explained this! I never forget the surprised looks they had. But being experienced travelers who love to try new things, they went for it, of course!

Especially when I explained that it has a relaxing effect on the muscles and also helps in calming down and it has nourishing, refreshing effect on the skin.
Naturally, I offered them cold drinks while ladies were in sauna. Savannah got to try Finnish apple sider and Maggie had some, not so Finnish Dr. Pepper soda, as she really likes that.


I know people who really dislike sauna, they con
sider it to be agonizing. But certainly not these women! T
hey seemed genuinely love the sauna experience! (Or they were just being overly polite and told me so just to be nice...) I felt happy though, yay! Yet another Finnish thing that I managed to show my guests and they sincerely (seemed to) liked it.

There is no actual English word for a verb "saunoa" ("doing the sauna thing - being in there) meaning the time when people are in sauna and just doing their thing, i.e. some sitting, some lying, some whipping themselves with bundle of birch branches...
So let's just say that these well-traveled women really knew how to "saunoa" since they lasted there longer than I did

After the sauna and
the shower, the first thing these two women with really red cheeks and big, big smiles asked:
"Can we please do this again tomorrow?"


Yes, of course we can! Anything to my amazing guests!

By the end of the first night they had already experienced things in Finland that most tourists never get a chance to do.

Day two of two women's adventure in Finland

The next day we wanted to see nature. However, we needed something from the supermarket so we drove to Kirkkonummi city first. Surprise! Everything was closed, which was strange considering it was about noon. We heard that the electric cable had been cut so all the stores had to close their doors and the power failure was supposed to last at least another hour... not very promising.

Since my guest needed to sort out some insurance matters, we decide to drive to Espoo, Iso-Omena shopping center. (http://www.isoomena.fi) which was all right, after all I got show them that too. They didn't get the answer they were looking for but at least they can now say that they visited Espoo too and I got to buy us some refreshments for our next adventure...
There would've been couple of interesting places to check out near by the Iso-Omena (Big Apple), however, my guests really wanted to go to Porkkalanniemi because I had told them that it's the real deal, pure, pristine nature with some wildlife etc..


Next stop: Porkkalanniemi


So we drove to Porkkalanniemi, which is a peninsula in the Gulf of FInlandlocated here, in Kirkkonummi. The coasts of the peninsula are popular bird watching areas so I wanted to take Savannah and Maggie there to climb up to the bird watching tower.

On our way there we saw some amazing Finnish country side, it really is so pretty there!


Once we got there, Savannah and I, funny girls that we are, noticed these carriages there. I happened to know that they have been used for transporting milk churns back in the old days, but now they were there so that hikers can take their gear to the woods with them. 


Of course we had to try them! It was so much fun! We were pulling each other around the place, Maggie was laughing, we were all having a good time, although, probably not what these two had expected to experience in Finland - heaps better, I bet!Ok, we probably looked like misbehaving kids, but who cares, that's perfectly fine at times to let loose! Finns aren't as stiff as some may think - well, at least I'm not! (I can be, but when I don't have to, I'd rather crack a joke and fool around, life is much more fun that way!)

Ok, sorry, back to the story:
We started to walk towards the woods, wherein the bird watching tower was supposed to locate.


On our way we saw these cutest little Finnish outhouses for campers/ hikers to use.
Can you believe that a toilet that is built of wood can actually be pretty?

Finnish woods are very rich in sources of food, lots of berries and mushrooms. I showed Savannah and Maggie blueberries an told them that in Finland it is allowed to pick and eat berries basically anywhere (as long as it's not in someone's yard.) So our walk wasn't the fastest as we had some blueberry delicacies on the way...

Finally we saw the tower, and it was a decent sized tower...


For me it was a small challenge having a fear of heights. On the other hand, it helped having these women with me, I almost forgot to be scared, except maybe on top it was little scary as the tower was slightly wobbly... 






Climbing all the way up was totally worth it! The view was spectacular! I think I forgot to mention this to my guests but it's only tens of kilometers from Estonian coast line.

I wonder whether it was the adrenal rush or just the company, but once again, we were having heaps fun! 
Here are the results of our photogenic moments: That's the best part having guests like these two women, everything is fun, nothing is too stiff and formal. We all were able to be as we were, no faking, just joking and having fun!



Ok, calm down crazy hair girls, it looks like it might rain soon, it's time to head back to the car...


Nature surprises!

As always, best things happen when you least expect (or plan) them.

The road to Porkkalanniemi is very curvy, you can't drive more than about 40-50 km/h there. And a little warning (again), if you decide to drive there, don't bypass other cars, it's not safe!

I was just explaining my guests that they should keep their eyes open while I'm driving as there's plenty of wild animals here, and right that moment, I hit the break - LOOK!!


And on the right side of the car, there it was, one of Finland's most majestic, largest animals (although this one was only about 1-2 yrs old, so not a grown up and That big yet), right there, looking at us. A MOOSE!!!!Windows open and let the cameras do the work - and they certainly did.

I was actually a bit surprised how happy seeing this animal made my guests, considering all the countries and animals they've seen. But, maybe it's different experience with each animal in each country.
And I do have to admit, it looked amazing!

I've seen them before but this one looked so wonderful, because it was in it's own area, in the woods. In Finland, hunters get to apply for permits in order to hunt moose. Why? If you hunt too much of them (because the meat is very good), there aren't enough of them soon. If you don't hunt them, there are too many of them and they cause lethal car accidents every year when they jump to the road and get hit by a car. Because the moose is so heavy, quite often the collision is as bad for the driver as it is for the moose...


We had to continue driving because the road is actually dangerous and cars are prohibited to stop there.

Right after take off I said, by the way there are also deers here and.. LOOK!!!

And again I hit the breaks. Right there, looking at us, was a deer, staring at us as if it was posing - and again, windows down, cameras out and lots of photos!

Am I the hostess to the mostess or what? 
I even arrange wild animals right next to the road to pose to my guests! Who else would do all that? Ok, maybe it wasn't me, stars were aligned or something, in any case the universe seems to agree that I need to show these women Finland's best sides. On the other hand, I had the animal whisperer, Savannah in the car so I wasn't even that surprised by all that.

On our way back we actually saw a motorcyclist in the ditch, couldn't probably handle the curvy road... (He wasn't hurt and there were people helping him already, so, no, we didn't just dump him there and continue finding the animals!)

The scenery is spectacular but not that much time to enjoy it while driving. Good thing my guests had a private chauffeur!


Next stop: Hvitträsk

(http://www.kansallismuseo.fi/en/hvittrask)

We had had quite an active day already, but I wanted to take Savannah and Maggie to one more place, namely Hvitträsk. Before they came to Finland, Savannah told me that they'd be interested in seeing architecture and nature, so I knew I want to show them this place as well before we head back home, besides, it's only about 5 km from home. 


This beautiful place called Hvitträsk was designed to be a studio home for a Finnish architecture firm, and it later became a private residence of Eliel Saarinen, perhaps the most famous Finnish architect. Building is named after the nearby lake, Viträsk, which literally means White lake. Nowadays places is a public museum. It's incredibly beautiful place, it's on top of a very high hill and the lake is on the bottom, so the view from the top is spectacular. 




To bee or not...

Savannah sat down under this window arch, absolutely beautiful - yes, both the arch and Savannah! And since we all love taking photos, we didn't miss the opportunity to use the amazing nature as a background...

So, here I am, trying to take a photo of her, and I'm looking at her as if she's gone mad as she is laughing, literally her ass off and I don't get why... I try to tell her to stay still as after all, I am trying to take photo of her, but she is just out of control, laughing insane and I'm confused... what???

Suddenly, I see something (flying) approaching me - fast! And, boldly, it sits on right on my eye lash! Seriously? Right before I'm about to shoo it away, I realized it's a bee! A bee!
In my eye?! C'mon, gimme a break!

I got so scared, I try to back off, and it just follows me!
I try to scream and run away, and what does the bee do? Yes, got that right, it just follows me! I run around like a headless chicken trying to get rid of the bee, and what does Savannah do? Helps me? Noup!
She is laughing so much, she can't even see, she's got eyes full of tears, poor thing! She is literally on her knees, she is about to loose it, it's so hilarious - in her opinion - but she isn't the one running for her dear life!

Finally I got rid of the bee, and at this point we are all laughing like lunatics, ok, I admit that must have looked hilarious!

Savannah tries to explain that she saw this bee flying around me but she can't say anything because she knew that I'd scare the bejesus out of me and I'm just telling her how to pose and keep still and I'm being completely clueless of the fact that this flying beast is trying to hunt me down! I can only imagine how it must have felt on her side; being so hysterical, I keep telling her to stay still for photos and at the same time I'm the one who should stay still as this bee is about to sting me...

Oh dear, what a day, and unbelievable but true, I have never considered bees fun, but this incident, it really was fun. Although, everyone was laughing at me! But who cares, my guests enjoyed it! A good hostess would do anything for her guests... - except gets stung by a bee!

I'm making a big deal out of nothing?

Well, have you ever had a bee sitting on your eye lash?
Can you imagine how scary that is?
What if it stung me?

I don't even want to think about that, but seriously, that creature felt as if it was a bit nuts... and guess what, I found out just a few days later that many people have been seriously attacked by bees in Finland, because the summer was so short and due to that the queen bee has died earlier and, therefore, the worker bees go crazy as their purpose has gone and for that reason they attack people!

The worst case I read from the news was when a girl was in the woods with her dog and they stepped on a bee nest on the ground and she got stung 30 times and her dog, poor thing, 40 times - and it would have been even worse if she didn't jump into the muddy ditch!
She barely managed to call 112, it took an hour before the rescue team found her and by that time she was in quite bad shape already as she was allergic to bees, but she made it, thank God. This wasn't the only case, there have been tens of similar cases. Good thing though, that I didn't know this then, I don't know what I had done, had I known that! Well I know someone would have laughed even more, since I probably would have jumped into the lake...!

Too bad I was running around the garden trying to lose that bee so I don't have any photos of Savannah rolling around laughing out loud... as, trust me, if I did, you'd see it here!
Oh, just realized, who knows, maybe that poor bee just thought that I was its mighty queen?!

Again, hostess with the mostess; job well done, guests are laughing and enjoying themselves!

Finally, we headed back home. I offered to make my famous chicken pasta when my guests humbly ask: Can we have that reindeer stew, there is still left some? It was soooo good!

Oh, goodness, of course you can! I was so happy to hear that as it really showed that they sincerely loved it.

I'm driving home when suddenly they ask: "What about our vihtas?"
Oh, yes, the vihtas!
So we drove to the Viträsk lake's beach and I climbed up to the hill to cut birch branches and made vihta for them while Savannah took some photos (cf. below). 

At least I think this looks like there was one happy girl here!

So, another traditional Finnish meal and sauna for the second night, which happened to be Tuesday night, when Savannah and some of here friends host that Twitter chat #TRLT (via which we actually met). So, if she thought that she can just sit down in her bed quarters and chat, she was totally wrong. 

The way we were chatting was: 

I set up nice lounge area for us to our living room: large pillows on the floor, bottle of Champagne and we zipped some Mimosas while chatting with chat guests - that's the way to do it!

Just a thought of me being able to make their trip to Finland unforgettable, fun and adventurous makes me so happy, mission accomplished!


All good things come an end

On the next day it was time to pack up and head back to Helsinki as they were ready to continue their trip to next country, namely Estonia. Their road trip consisted of 10 countries and 10 capitals. What a trip! I'm sure we get to read about that in Savannah's blog at some point!

I have to say that I have never in my life enjoyed so much hosting any guests. There are many chores to take care of before guests arrive and also during the visit, but this time, I didn't care, I felt so humbled, grateful and happy that they actually chose to come and visit me, even if they hadn't even met me before. And this visit was something that I will never forget and I sincerely feel that I have two new friends for life. It was unbelievable how natural it felt, right from the start.

All I can say is: Miss you so much! Hope to see you soon! Welcome back and I sincerely hope that you enjoyed even half as much as I did! It was an absolute pleasure and a privilege! 




Savannah Grace aka @Sihpromatum



Savannah Grace is a 26 year-old travel author and influencer, born and raised in Vancouver, Canada. She currently lives in The Netherlands and has visited 108 countries. She is the author of the bestselling travel series Sihpromatum, which includes
“I Grew My Boobs in China” and “Backpacks and Bra Straps”.

She runs the popular luxury/adventure website www.sihpromatum.com and has been actively documenting her travels for more than a decade. She is also the founder of #TRLT (The Road Less Travelled) Twitter chat, which now regularly ranks as one of the top travel chats in the world. 




Here's one random reader's comment on the book:"Sihpromatum: I Grew My Boobs in China" by Savannah Grace is an enjoyable memoir. Vividly written in colorful detail, Savannah's adventure is unparalleled by anything that could have been written in fiction. Sharing her emotions, along with her observations, the reader has an opportunity to watch Savannah mature and gain a great deal of depth to her character. It is also her journey of discovery from within. There are many lessons to be learned from Savannah's adventure. "  - Reader Views


  


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I Grew My Boobs in China

Backpacks and Bra Straps

7/24/2016

BE SAFE, BE STREET SMART! ..and what is Krav Maga?

How to be aware, stay safe and defend yourself when traveling solo?
What is KRAV MAGA and how it can help you to be safe?

Dear Readers,

Bad luck...
As most of you know my previous post was about bad luck - lots of it, which I'm sure made some of you laugh, even in tears, as it really was surreal, for sure, and now, years later I laugh at it too, it was hilarious! I kind of end up to these sticky situations, but good thing is, I also know how to get out of them!

Really bad luck and bad people...
Sometimes, when you travel, especially if you are a female and traveling alone, bad luck is not the only thing that can ruin your trips.
Sometimes it can be bad people. And you may end up into a situation where you most certainly don’t feel like laughing – on the contrary!

On this post I tell you about my dear hobby, Krav Maga and how that helps me and could also help you to avoid dangerous situations, and, if you do end up into one, survive it as a winner.


Goal 1: Learn how to avoid dangerous, threatening situations and be street smart
Goal 2:
 If you and up into one, know what to do so that you don’t get hurt and if necessary you know how to defend yourself.


CONTENT OF THIS BLOG POST:

1.What is Krav Maga?
A. Background 
B. Krav Maga for Women

2. Interview of Krav Maga Instructor, Jonna Vainikainen 


3. Some IMPORTANT general safety advice for female solo traveler... including some real life stories of what has happened to me on my travels...

May sound serious and even boring, but it's not!

  READ THE BLOG POST! 
                        Any of these instructions may even SAVE YOUR LIFE one day!        
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1. WHAT IS KRAV MAGA?

A. Background:

Krav Maga is a self-defense system developed for the Israel Defense Forces (IDF). It is known for its focus on real-world situations and its extremely efficient and brutal counter-attacks. It's about emphasizing threat neutralization, simultaneous defensive and counter-attacks with aggression.

Attacks are aimed at the most vulnerable parts of the body, and training is not limited to techniques that avoid severe injury. Drills provide maximum safety to students by the use of protective equipment and the use of reasonable force. While training we learn to defend against all variety of attacks and are taught to counter in the quickest and most efficient way.

It's about...
*Maximum effectiveness and efficiency in order to neutralize the opponent's attack as quickly as possible.
*Maintaining awareness of surroundings while dealing with the threat in order to look for escape routes, further attackers, objects that could be used to defend or help attack, and so on.

Krav Maga encourages students to avoid confrontation. 

If this is impossible or unsafe, it promotes finishing a fight as quickly as possible.

*Targeting attacks to the body's most vulnerable points, such as: the eyes, face, solar plexus, groin, ribs, knee, foot, fingers, liver, etc.
Training can also cover the study and development of situational awareness to develop an understanding of one's surroundings, learning to understand the psychology of a street confrontation, and identifying potential threats before an attack occurs. It may also cover ways to deal with physical and verbal methods to avoid violence whenever possible.

Good Krav Maga training consists of the following parts: Technical, tactical, physical and mental.


My Krav Maga practice:

I’m only on the P1 level, i.e. 1st level practitioner. It means that I've passed the first, basic training course and now trained almost for two years. The actual test to pass the basic training course of 10 weeks and to get to level P1 was 3 hours of full on training, so it really isn't easy. You get kicked, punched in the head, strangled - all controlled, naturally.However, it may save my life one day, so totally worth every drop of sweat and bruise that I get, and, you know what - without them, you wouldn't be able to react in a real situation as pain would freeze you!
At this point, I'd like to emphasize that Krav Maga is never to be used just to hurt someone, but only to defend yourself or some other person if necessary, and before using force, always, at first, try to solve situation verbally. 

I practice Krav Maga in order to get in better shape, get street smart and to be able to defend myself - not because I want to get to certain level, levels are only one way to express your skills to other trainers so that we know what the opponent can and cannot do.


B. Krav-maga.com/krav-maga-for-women:

                                                          
Why women should practice Krav-Maga?
Why is it important?
1. Physical health
Confidence is important. False confidence is dangerous. All our practitioners are introduced to the realities of violence and the necessity of accurately assessing the situation.

As with many types of physical training, Krav Maga will have a positive effect on overall fitness levels. The difference between Krav Maga and traditional workouts? You will never get bored. You can build: Strength, endurance, stamina, power, core strength & toning and improved coordination & balance.

2. Physical self-defense
For women, in particular, Krav Maga is particularly effective because the skills are designed to address the realities of violence when power, size, and strength are factors.

3. Psychological aspect
As you've probably realized by now, Krav Maga is, indeed, tough self-defense system and is no child's play. However, don't be afraid of it, it's not your enemy, being helpless, victim and bad people are, and that is exactly it would be good to know at least the basics. 

(Readers: For your information, there are photos here of situations that have been acted by me, and my son who has practiced Aikido for 9 years and Krav Maga for 3 years, please, do not try to do this without proper instructions and protection.)                                                                           

2. INTERVIEW OF Jonna Vainikainen, Krav Maga Instructor
(Blog writer's questions are marked as "Q")


Q. How long have you trained Krav Maga and what is your level in it?

I have trained Krav Maga since 1998 and my level is Expert 1 (Krav Maga Global).
Readers: for your information, my instructor, Jonna Vainikainen, who during the interview was Expert 1 is now presumably the 4th woman in the entire world to have achieved Expert 2 level.

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(Source: Wikipedia)
Blogger's comments about levels & categories
The grades are divided into 3 main categories/levels:
Practitioner (P), Graduate (G) and Expert (E) and they have 5 ranks. 
Practitioner: Grades P1 through to P5 are the student levels and make up the majority of the Krav Maga community.
Graduate: provides students to demonstrate a proficiency in all of the P level techniques before advancing. The majority of instructors hold a G level grade and are civilian instructors. The Graduate syllabus also builds on the Practitioner syllabus by focusing more on developing fighting skills. 
The Expert grades cover more advanced military and 3rd party protection techniques as well as advanced sparring and fighting skills. People who hold these ranks tend to teach also in other sectors such as military and law enforcement in addition to civilian. In order to progress to Expert level, one has to demonstrate proficiency in all of the Practitioner and Graduate syllabi and have excellent fighting skills. 
Master rank is beyond Expert 5, but this rank is held by only a small number of individuals and reserved only for those who have dedicated a lifetime to Krav Maga and made valuable contributions to teaching and promoting the style.
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Q. Why did you start Krav Maga training in the first place?

I've always been interested in self-defense and martial arts. In 1998 Krav Maga was quite a new thing in Finland and I wanted to have a go. And here I am almost 20 years after…


Q. Could you give some tips for solo traveling women (regardless of the destination) on how to avoid a situation where they may feel threatened?
It is self-evident not to go to insecure places and if you see a potential risk, choose another route. It is also important to prevent possible situations:

Think also about your posture and body language; when you walk tall and look self-confident there is a smaller chance of being attacked.

And yes, self-defense training gives you tools; mentally, physically, technically and tactically. You can think self-defense skills like insurance, it is good to have one, but it’s better if you never need to use it.


Q. So, how would you advise female to do if she ends up to a place where she is alone in a threatening situation? Are there any simple “tricks” for her to defend herself, say, for example in a situation where a drunken male is trying to corner her up and is basically harassing her already? Would you give a different kind of instructions if it was a robbery situation?


Set and keep your boundaries

Don’t let anyone come near you unless you want to

Tell the person to keep away verbally and physically
 by using a correct body language, tone, and words. Don’t let anyone grab you and release your immediately if you get caught.

There are no special tricks, but if you cannot release yourself otherwise, kick to the shin or groin area or fingers to the eyes can do the trick and give you enough time to escape.
The easiest way is to give what a robber wants. You can shut your credit cards and buy a new purse or bag. But you can’t buy a life. But if you have a gut feeling that the money or your purse is not enough – then you have to fight as hard as you can. In robbery situations…if you don’t need it – leave it!

Women are independent, travel around the world while they are offered less protection than in past generations. Of course, it is good to find out the potential risks of the destination before the trip.

Think what to wear e.g. does your clothing hinder you of protecting yourself or jewelry or bag tempt potential attackers and thieves.


Q. You travel quite a bit, don’t you?  Have you ever been in a real life situation where you had to use your skills to eliminate a danger?

I have traveled quite a bit, but fortunately, I have always traveled safely. One advantage of training Krav Maga is to foresee and prevent potential risks and dangers.


Q. Is there such thing as overreacting in such situation, especially for an untrained person?
Especially in Finland, we have been thought to think that unless life is in danger, we are not allowed to take action and defend ourselves since there have been occasions wherein the defender has ended up being accused of an assault.

The most important thing to remember is that being attacked is not your fault and you have a right to defend yourself against unjust assault.
What you can do and how you can defend yourself in different situations varies in different countries. By training self-defense, you can increase your abilities to act properly.

Q. Especially when traveling in countries with completely different culture, women may not have same kind position and rights as they have in Finland, and top of that, there may very well also be a language barrier.
What can a woman do, if she feels threatened by a man but they don’t have a mutual language?
Just saying "No" may not be enough at all.
You need to have determination and persistence.
Body language and the tone are more important than the language. 
In some countries looking in the eyes can be interpreted as a signal or approval to approach or bad behavior so it something to avoid – even though we have always been taught otherwise. Dark sunglasses can be a solution to this and prevent us doing an unintentional mistake.


Q. Do you think women were safer if they took a self-defense course/lessons?

Yes, definitely.
The actual course “makes you think” and can give ideas and solutions how to protect yourself. But you need to train regularly to gain proper self-defense skills.


Q. There are many different types of fighting/martial art and self-defense training courses. 
How can a woman decide which one to take in order to defend herself, in this case, say, when traveling?
What is your recommendation? Krav Maga or something else?

If you want to learn self-defense, train self-defense.
If you want to compete, then a competitive martial art can be something for you.
In self-defense classes: you learn to defend yourself in different situations e.g. indoors, outdoors, standing, on the ground, against one or multiple armed or unarmed attackers.
Situations that can happen in the everyday life – not in the ring.
Of course my recommendation for self-defense training is Krav Maga (Krav Maga Global).
In Krav Maga Global we teach not only to deal with various types of attacks, we also teach women the appropriate mental capabilities to support their physical readiness to fight.


Q. Would you advise men differently than women?

To some extent, yes. 
In general, self-defense is the same, but Krav Maga has been developed to meet the specific needs of each type of individual.

What women encounter are different types of harassment and stalking and they are typically more likely to face slaps, attacks at closer range, grabs, pulling and pushing and attacks on the ground. It is important to learn how to deal these kinds of threats and attacks. Women are generally smaller, differently fostered and mentally different than men. In addition, women usually carry more bags and jewelry and have longer hair, nails and that kind of clothing that can be a disadvantage in a self-defense situation.

But, on the other hand, women can easily surprise the attacker and by learning Krav Maga they can turn their disadvantages into advantages.


Thank you so much, Jonna!

I'm sure my readers are as grateful for these tips as am I. Krav Maga has brought, already after this little time, some confidence when traveling alone. Also, I've noticed that my awareness of the surroundings is on another level after we've practiced situations where you get attacked without a warning.

Think in advance, avoid situations, don't be provocative - or provoked, walk away, change your route if anything suspicious is on sight.And, make noise if you do end up into an altercation, that way you get other people's attention and the attacker may get scared and even run away. 
As simple as shouting out loud may work.
Whatever you do, don't freeze - react!                                                                  




3. Some general safety advice for a female solo traveler 
and some examples of real life...


1. If you go out for drinks, even with your friends, always keep the drink in your own hand. 
Real life story:

This happened to me about 13 years ago:
I was talking to some Bulgarian guys in a night club around 11 pm and next thing I remember was waking up from the toilet at 4.30. I had my belongings with me, luckily!
The night club was nearly empty, I had no idea where I was as we went there with my friends and we stayed at the hotel in another town. I was so confused, didn't even realize until next day that someone "spiced up" my drinks. After all I had about 3 drinks all night.

What happened then? Well, not one person spoke English at that time of the night. One old (like about 80-90 yrs) poor man, sleeping on the ground pointed me through the park and said "taxi" - if only I had money to give him to show my appreciation, but had to keep them all to my taxi.

That park was DARK and looked really suspicious, but that was all I had, so to the park I went. Thank God I had my hotel room (old-fashioned) key with me, as one good tip is to put the key inside your fist so that the key sticks out between your fingers, so that if someone attacks you, you can punch them with the fist that has key sticking out, at least it a) hurts b) leaves marks.

So I managed to get a taxi. I didn't tell the driver that I don't have enough money to drive to another town wherein we stayed at. My cell phone was dead (no battery left and no connection anyway) so I couldn't even call my friends. Taxi driver was, indeed, a bit upset with me not having enough money, but let me go.

Another lesson: NEVER LEAVE YOUR FRIENDS ALONE! (well, for obvious reasons I'm not friends with them anymore!)


2. If you need a ride, take an official taxi, if possible.

Take a photo of taxis number if you are in a country that even taxis aren't always that trustworthy and send the photo to someone, pretend to talk on your phone during the ride, you may even pretend telling someone: "By the way, I'm in a taxi, on my way to the restaurant called..." This way it's riskier to taxi driver to do anything as there is someone out there who knows where you are. 


Real life story

This happened about 20 yrs ago.
When I lived in Australia, a girl I knew almost got raped by a taxi driver. She remembered the number of the taxi. She had no proof, but it was very obvious that something happened, she was shaking when she came to the night club where we were waiting for her. Once her brother found out about this, he gathered his friends and they went to look for the taxi. And... they found it. The driver saw them coming and run away, and these guys were so angry, so they turned his small taxi upside down! Imagine that! What a revenge. Of course, the right thing to do would've been to call the police, but they were young (as was I at the time) and they also knew that there was nothing police could do as the girl had no proof - but she had the taxi's number! I bet that driver never attacks another girl, at least not in his taxi anyway...


3. Take a ride, rather than walk on night time, if possible, ask your ride from your hotel if that is where you're staying. There are cars that look like taxis but aren't really taxis and people may really get hurt and, at least, robbed if get into one.


4. Keep your wallet and valuables out of sight, especially if night time and walking on the streets - and don't put your purse into your jeans etc. pocket, put it to somewhere safe (inside your sweater etc.) and don't keep all your money and credit cards in one place.


5. Don't leave your suitcases or any belongings unguarded
 at the airports, public transportation etc. (or other places for that matter, even in hotels, make sure that a staff member actually takes your bags somewhere safe, so that no one can take it or put anything into it). You may lose them or end up being a courier to some illegal items and end up even into prison - this has happened, we've all heard those horror stories.


6. This may sound like an odd advice but don't look like a tourist, try to blend in. 
Tourists are the easiest targets. If you have to look at the map, look inside a cafe etc. not in the middle of the street as then those who are looking for victims notice you, follow you when they see that you might be a bit lost, then offer you help and moment later you find yourself either mugged, robbed or even more lost than before anyway... or worse, but let's not even go there.


7. Always let someone know where you're going. Whether it's your family at home, or hotel receptionist, who you already know to some extent etc. and tell them when are you planning to come back. So that if you don't come back, and people start to look for you, at least they know where to begin.


8. As much as you like making new friends, don't trust people too easily
 - not everyone is as nice as you are. You really can't tell whether especially men are really just willing to be your friends or do they have another motive...


9. Be prepared! Make sure that if you end up losing your money, passports etc. you have someone to contact to get more money, you have stored a photocopy of your passport to internet etc. - i.e. prepare for the worst case scenario. This also includes: make sure you have proper traveler's insurance! Know the emergency number, it may not be 112 in all countries!


10. Know at least basics on how to defend yourself if you end up into a situation wherein your personal boundaries aren't being respected. The most important advice is: leave, immediately if you feel that something is not right. Quite often your intuition is right. If you feel like you are not able to walk away, try get other peoples attention, scream if you have to, that may scare the attacker away. If you have to physically defend yourself, aim to the eyes, groin area, punch the chin or plexus. 


Hopefully, though, you never need these tips.
Naturally, there are many other smart tips and tricks to take into account when traveling, whether you're a male or female traveler, solo or not. These were just examples of what came to my mind. *

I would love to read your comments and tips as well as your real life stories, so please, leave a comment or comment on this on Twitter!
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Just because I warned you here of some of the situations that may end up badly, it doesn't mean that it would happen to you. It just means that you have to be street smart, be prepared and know how to defend yourself in case you do end up into a bad situation, whether it's just a threat or even an assault, or maybe there is an accident or you get sick... React - don't freeze!

Don't stop traveling just because these might happen - just be prepared and you find traveling, even more, fun as then you feel safer and also, your loved ones are more comfortable when you travel because you've taken precautions and don't take unnecessary risks. 

I wish you all safe travels, happy days and if anyone tries to hurt you, remember, you have a right to defend yourself - no one has right to come to your personal space or touch you unless you give them a permission. 

Good luck and happy travels!

With love,
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Mia

Next blog post...On my next blog post I will tell you hilarious stories about what it was like when two women, originally from Canada, now living in Amsterdam came to Finland and got to experience some really original, natural Finnish things - something that they probably will never forget - and me neither.

Lots of fun pictures coming to that post as well - don't miss it!

Who were those visitors?
Well, that I will reveal in 3 weeks when I post my next blog. Let's just say that she really has traveled a lot, also roads less traveled and you might know her from our travelers' chat on Twitter... so don't go anywhere, some crazy, fun stories still coming up!

Due date for publishing the next blog is August 14, 2016, so have patience people, it's worth waiting, just like are any other good things in life!

...You know how the world may sometimes feel like it's messed up, everything seems to be up side down?
Perhaps you are then visiting the country down under?
Or maybe you need to check yourself, it might be you who is up side down - not the world! 😉